Alright, let’s cut the fluff. You don’t need a science book or Kama Sutra encyclopedia to enjoy sex. Most people just make things up as they go along and do what feels right. That being said, if you have been using the same two or three moves, it’s probably feeling a bit stale. That’s where trying new sex positions can change everything.
I'm not going to lay out 101 acrobatic maneuvers that you won't try. This is about the real things people do in bed, what feels good, and what’s just plain weird.
Because routine kills excitement, that’s true in relationships, and 100% true in bed. Trying different sex positions isn’t just about showing off—it’s about discovering new ways to connect, new angles of pleasure, and honestly, new reasons to laugh with your partner when things don’t go quite right (they usually don’t).
Sometimes, you’ll hit a position that just works. Other times, you’ll feel like a tangled pretzel. Either way, you’ll learn something.
Let’s keep it real—there are a few best sex positions that people come back to again and again. They’re pretty straightforward, they feel great, and you don’t need a yoga mat.
Look, this one’s getting a bad rap. But it’s intimate. You’re close; you can kiss, talk, and watch each other’s faces. And yeah, you can adjust things a bit with pillows or leg placements to change how it feels.
It’s deep. It’s intense. It gives the partner in the back more control. Also, some people just love this view. No shame in that.
This one flips the control. The one on top gets to set the pace, angle, depth—everything. It’s also a solid position for clitoral stimulation and eye contact (or not, if you go reverse).
This one’s made for rainy days or nights when you’re tired but still want that connection. It’s slow, soft, and super underrated.
“Depends on who you ask.” Suppose you’re counting every tiny variation, probably hundreds. If you’re talking about the ones people actually use without breaking something, maybe 10 to 15. Don’t stress about hitting all the sex positions in existence. You’re not collecting Pokémon. Pick a few that work and enjoy the hell out of them.
Honestly? Yeah, if you’re a visual person. Sometimes, reading about a position doesn’t really explain how to get into it. Watching a quick sex position video or checking out sex position images can help a lot.
Just don’t expect to look like the actors. Most of those clips are made for cameras, not comfort.
Try If You’re Feeling Adventurous
Feeling brave? Here are three you probably haven’t tried yet—and they’re actually doable.
One person lies flat, the other lies across their body like a T. It looks weird, but the angle hits different. Literally.
Sit facing each other, and wrap your legs and arms around each other. It’s a slow, emotional talk, and kissing is encouraged.
One of the partners is sitting on the edge of a bed; the other is standing between their legs. All this makes the rhythm a little higher and more powerful. Just make sure the bed’s not wobbly.
Don’t believe the hype—some sex positions just aren’t worth it. The what: those poses where you have to balance on one arm while twisting your body like a pretzel? Yeah, no thanks. Sex should feel good, not like an exercise session.
It’s okay to give something a go and say, “No, this isn’t for me.”
You can try all sex positions in the world, but if you’re not connected with your partner, none of it really hits. The goal isn’t to be impressive—it’s to feel something real.
So yeah, explore. Try the best sex positions. Play around with new sex positions. Watch a couple of sex position videos if that helps. But don’t worry about doing it “right.” And if you’re laughing, sweating, and smiling at the end, you just nailed it.