Spanking your partner is always fun, with little teasing and transgression, but in BDSM, spanking is a different scenario. There are so many tools just for spanking. Paddles and whips are things that are primarily used in BDSM. Spanking with your hand does not give that red sleekness to your partner, and those red lines are turned on. Whip creates a whole different pain; it is intense and sharp. First, do a pre-whip talk with your partner while playing with a whip. Decide boundaries and choose safe words. Ask them which part of whipping turns them on and what pain level they can tolerate. In the world of whipping, yellow and red are the most common safe words used by 100 people because these two colours are widespread in our daily life too. We all know red means STOP, and yellow means comfort. When you buy a whip or before trying it with your partner, check its strength in your body so that you can have an idea of how much power you need to use while whipping your partner. Always start slow, give your partner some time to start up with your hands and then use the bondage whip. Ass and genitals are like neighbours; they are close to each other. When you spank the ass, it increases the blood concentration of the whole area, which produce great sensations and leads to a great orgasm.
Regardless of the terms you prefer to use, be sure you and your partner have the same understanding of these words in context. Use words that you are both comfortable with as you discuss sexual acts and what they mean to you. Be free t share what you like or don't with your partner.
To stop the session immediately, use a "safe word" that is non-sexual and easy to understand. The common safe word "CARROT" is a good example. Dear dominant, the playtime ends when the submissive yells their safe word.
Sensual spanking is an art of teasing, pleasing and sometimes stinging the other. Here are the tips to make hot spanking more satisfying and the best BDSM toys to use for a delightful bottom thrash.
Two simple rules:
Warm-up
Whip it up
You've communicated, determined the roles and rules, set a safe scene and are now ready to play. Be a serviceable dominant and massage your sub before and after the play. Begin with things that turn you both on but are definite favourites of the submissive, such as kissing, dirty talk, and genital stimulation with hands, tongue or toys. Once laid bare, the dom should rub and massage their sub's buttocks to stimulate blood flow. The area will warm and may become a bit flushed. Start with the soft tips of a riding crop to brush against the submissive's clitoris between rubbing their ass. Give a few hands spanks before using any hard spanking with a crop or sex flogger for hitting. Remember to do the verbal check-in before using a BDSM sex toy for spanking. This lets the dominant know how to gauge exertion.
Whips, floggers, paddles and crops can be used on other body areas, but beginners should focus on the rear end for safety reasons. Most muscle and fat regions are more resilient, so it feels better to be struck there. Using a flogger on someone's back requires further study and safety precautions. Aim for the centre of the butt cheeks to avoid hitting the tailbone, hips or upper thigh. A direct hit on the thigh is much more painful and might end your naughty session. Tickling, brushing and tapping are great for the rest of the body.
Follow this simple two 'W' rule and the whipping.
BDSM allows us to explore intense pleasure, pain, dominance, submission and obedience in playful ways. BDSM brings out so many sides of your relationship that you feel shy to let out. Bringing bondage handcuffs or blindfolds during oral or regular sex is a good start. Take your dominant and submissive characters out one night for dinner or something, and follow the rules of your game in a public space. There are many ways to enhance your erotic passion through BDSM and BDSM sex toys. Visit Cupidbaba to find your sex whip, flogger, sex crop and many other spanking tools along with other BDSM toys. Whip it, whip it real good!
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