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If you’ve ever had a fantasy about getting kinky in the bedroom, you surely aren't alone. The brilliant success behind the novel "Fifty Shades of Grey" — which sold more than a billion copies — and to mention, the revenue its movies generated, proving that interest in BDSM — bondage, and discipline, submission and dominance , and sadism and masochism — not rare at all and is in demand and preferred too. BDSM has become one of the topmost sexual kinks in the world.


A recent American-based study showed that nearly 45 percent of women and 62 percent of men have fantasized about dominating someone sexually, while on the contrary, women are more in number than men who get aroused by the idea of being dominated. The kinky activities involved in BDSM have been around for centuries in many cultures, but there are still some who view such sexual practices in a relationship as a dynamic taboo. Although for a beginner, BDSM or such practice may seem extreme, but for centuries various cultures have used these techniques in one or the other way to explore consciousness, power, sensual feelings, and control, as well as the dynamics of masculine and feminine energies in relationships.


Society has seen a notable shift in perception towards greater acceptance and understanding of BDSM - because various sex experts have been finding evidence about the harm it causes while or after practice. Instead, they have discovered ways in which it might positively impact our mental and physical health or even deepen our relationships. 


Benefits of BDSM

Some great researchers have been busy acknowledging the benefits of BDSM such as, it helps to reduce stress and even build trust in relationships. 


Reduced Stress Levels: Recent research has discovered that practicing BDSM practices can trigger biological effects—similar to the one you might experience during or after a healthy yoga session, or to a “runner’s high” you get from intense cardio. These activities can reduce the amount of cortisol (referred to as the stress hormone) that gets released from your body. Reduction in cortisol not only makes us feel better mentally, but it can also positively impact our physical and in turn, mental health. Lower cortisol levels protect us from a wide range of health ailments, such as high blood pressure, suppressed immunity, and insulin resistance.


Enhanced Communication: While a layman might assume that BDSM affects one's relationship negatively – it has been discovered that exploring aspects of BDSM with your partner can actually enhance your sexual relationship and ultimately bring you two closer. A researcher argues that “Experienced BDSM practitioners can polish their communication skills with each other and talk openly about sex and fantasies. These are the foundation of a successful relationship and it’s important to realize that Sex is a pleasant activity and it is OK to be submissive or powerful in a consensual way. Also, it’s important to note that sex play roles are a bit different than emotional relationship parameters and shouldn’t affect relationship power roles outside of sex play.”


 At the end of the day, improved communication skills are key factors for any satisfying, healthy relationship—romantic or otherwise.


Trust Deepens For One Another: As we just discussed how BDSM enhances communication levels between partners, it also reveals that those who practice BDSM can often experience a deeper sense of trust. ‘When done consciously, practicing BDSM can be a very powerful experience for a couple, resultantly bringing them closer enough.’


An honest conversation about what both people are interested in exploring, likewise, what do they fantasize about? Are they more often turned on by being utterly submissive or by having total control? These things take a great deal of trust to talk about than to let alone figure out ways to put practice into action and start with the actual role-playing. Being sexual with anyone requires a great deal of trust, but the intricacies of BDSM require participants to double down on being vulnerable with each other.


The Final Word

Although BDSM is viewed upon as bad or very kinky, practices that come under its umbrella have been a part of human experience for ages. Researches have proved time and again that it is positively associated with participants' mental and physical health and how it can deepen romantic relationships. If you're fantasizing about exploring BDSM with your partner, we recommend having a candid, open discussion with each other.


Bondage

Are you fantasizing to tie someone up or be tied up? Great - that's a lovely fantasy. Bondage—the B in BDSM aka Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism— is a most common fantasy, nowadays. And if you're not able to discuss that with your Partner openly, that's completely normal - we'll help you here with that. When you get a chance to talk about bondage, you should have empathy and clear observation so you're able to discover how your partner feels or reacts to Bondage. They might be scared with the term but it should be you who should win their confidence.


The basic meaning of Bondage is 'to restrain'. Bondage is a sexual practice in which different tools are used to restrain your partner during the sexual encounter. Some of the common restraints include rope, leather straps, bondage tape, ties, handcuffs, spreader bars, ball gags, blindfolds, and chains. These restraints help to restrict the partner’s senses or freedom of movement to a place bringing the control in the other partner’s hands and increase the mutual sexual stimulation. Restraint is the crux for most BDSM scenes. 


Once you have discussed with your partner what activities should be tried on the bed - when one of you is tied up (either that's spanking with Bondag whips Tools , BDSM Bondage Kit, nipple biting, or oral sex, ) and what's off-limits (maybe your partner is not keen enough for face-slapping or spitting), the tying scene can begin. 


There are numerous options out there for you to learn some tying skills, be it a book or a movie (say, Fifty Shades) but being fancy is not what's required at least as a beginner; just make sure the knot is something you can undo when you are ready for some next level intimacy. You can get a special bondage rope or even use a scarf or a bathrobe tie or something like that.


Handcuffs - another useful Bondage prop for Bondage play, often are gentle and user-friendly. While ropes are highly versatile, you don't have to worry tying-untying of handcuffs and can comfortably experiment with orgasms. You can go for some metal cuffs as are used in famous Fifty Shades movie.

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